Posted by Dee Austin on February 21, 2003 at 21:46:01:
In Reply to: Re: WHY AM I LESBIAN? posted by Star on February 16, 2003 at 22:01:20:
:My story is nothing like either of these stories, I can't say I know how you feel because I really don't know...but I spimpathise with all the ladies that have been a victim of rape. I have a girlfriend now that was a victim of rape and when she tells me her story I get mad becuase it's not right at all. But I just wanted to say that ALL men are not bad...I say this because I know that somewhere there is a good guy...I just so happen to be a lesbian that hasn't been a victim of rape or any kind of sexual abuse because my father and/or my brother was always around me. My mother on the other hand may have a major role in me becomeing a lesbian. As my mother and I talk more (unlike when i was small) she now sees how she was hardly around and when she was she was drunk, sleep or too tired from partying to deal with me or my brother so there for my father and my brother baisically raised me along with myself. But either way I was the only female in my household to a degree. So that's why I feel like I turned to females that's all I knew. My brother and always was with a girl and I always saw women around me so I developed a liking to them rather than men. But my father and brother always tried to teach me that men and women are meant to be but that's not what I saw so that's not what I did. So I dated my first girl when I was about 14 years old and I've liked it ever since then and now I love it.