Posted by toya on May 07, 2003 at 16:24:33:
In Reply to: In tearz posted by La'Shanna on April 30, 2003 at 23:55:58:
Personally I think your first mistake is doing what someone else wants you to do- If you want to work you should working and having your own money make syou independent not dependent and anyone who loves you should want that for you-feel me. Don't cry too much- if it's not good for you leave the relationship- it's not worth you lossing tears, and your spiritual and psychological health
: OK my sista's....I'm in teaez, over my girlfriend. We have been together for a little under a year, and thnigs where great at the start. Now I cry more then I laugh, and that is the reason I left my last relationship. She didn't want me to work so I stoped now she wants me to work and I will start soon but she is so mean now, and god she says the most hurt-ful things that you just wouldn't believe. Now all I do is cry, I'm not out- out to my family and that is because, well put it this way my grand-father is the pastor of my church, and all I hear is that "god made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve or Eve and Sally"....So some of my family knows like my mom she cool and still loves me to no end but I can't talk to her about me and my girl........
: I just need to know what to do.... I love her to death but i will leave her to re-gain my inner peace, but I want both what do I do? I'm a strong black woman that has a handle on everything in my life but this....I'm tired of cryin'.........